Blotter
Tissues: Tissues,
enclosed with a formal wedding invitation, which add a pretty and
classic touch. These were originally a necessity, used to keep the
invitation's ink from smearing; now they are simply an attractive
but non-essential element of many wedding invitations.
Business
Sheets: The
largest of all the letter papers at 8 ½ by 11 -- the size of
a standard piece of paper you would put in your copier or printer
-- business sheets are exactly what they sound like -- letter sheets
for business correspondence.
Ceremony
Cards:
These cards are accessory cards printed with the date, time and location
of a wedding ceremony. Ceremony cards are enclosed with a wedding
reception invitation when a number of guests are invited to the ceremony
as well. These are small cards, about 3 ½ by 5 inches with
four to six lines of text.
Ceremony
Program: A
listing of a wedding's rituals, songs and prayers as well as the musicians,
the officiant and bride and groom's attendants.
Correspondence
Cards: These
single-panel cards are informal, used for thank yous, informal invitations
and short notes. Correspondence cards are used by both men and women;
they may be plain or adorned; a monogram or a name can appear at the
top of the card. Write only on the front of the card. Postcards, at
4 x 6 inches, are a type of correspondence card.
Envelope
Linings: Glossy
paper which lines the inside of formal envelopes and adds an attractive
and festive accent to the invitation.
Half
Sheets: Half
sheets, originally called this because they were half the length of
formal letter sheets, are single sheets of paper that fold in half
to fit an envelope. They are 5 ¼ by 3 ¾ when unfolded.
Half sheets may have a monogram, name, name and address or just an
address. Both men and women use half sheets. Write on only the front
of the sheet. Half sheets are informal, used for personal notes and
informal invitations.
House
Stationery: House
stationery, traditionally provided for the convenience of guests in
one's vacation home, is now more commonly used in hotels and Bed &
Breakfasts. Providing quality stationery for your guests is a courtesy;
it also makes your establishment more homey and memorable. The name
of your establishment and the address or simply the name or the address
are printed at the top of half-sheets.
Imprintible
Stationery and Cards: cardSupply
offers blank stationery and cards which are described as "imprintible."
This means you can, with your printer at home or by working with a
printer in your area, print your own message on the cards.
Informals:
Informal stationery has a deceptive name;
these are actually formal papers. These small foldover notes are about
3 ½ by 5 inches. The name of an individual -- usually a woman
-- or a couple's names may be printed on the front; the inside is
used for a brief note; usually thank-yous, responses to formal invitations,
gift enclosures and formal invitations. They may be plain or adorned
with a border or artwork.
Inner
Envelopes:
Formal invitations, particularly wedding invitations, include two
envelopes. The outer envelope, described below, has the recipient's
name and address and your return address on it. The inner envelope
is more plain; it only has the formal names of those invited on it
in handwriting or calligraphy. There is no glue on the flap. The invitation,
along with any enclosure cards, is placed in the inner envelope, folded
edge first, facing the back flap. The inner envelope is then placed
inside the outer envelope, the flap-side in.
Invitations:
A request to join the host at a particular
event. Different occasions call for various invitation guidelines.
Formal invitations are written in the third person, with all names,
numbers and dates spelled out except for street addresses. Invitations
for formal parties are sent two to four weeks in advance; wedding
invitations are sent four to eight weeks in advance, depending on
the formality of the wedding. Informal invites must be written with
good taste, but may be imaginative, comical and charming, as the hosts
wish. Invitations for informal gatherings may be sent one to two weeks
ahead.
Letter
Sheets:
Letter sheets are the most formal paper; these are traditionally ercu,
ivory or white and 5 ¼ by 7 ½ inches. These are the
same sheets used for formal wedding invitations. Letter sheets have
two folds: one is along the left side; the other is top-to-bottom,
to fit the note into an envelope about half the size of the sheet.
Traditionally, these sheets are used to reply to formal invitations
and for letters of condolence but because of their classic simplicty,
letter sheets are often used for many sorts of correspondence. Do
not write on the back of the sheets.
Monarch
Sheets:
At 7 ¼ by 10 ½, monarch sheets are traditionally a men's
paper, but many women find them useful too, for long letters and personal
business notes. Your name and address may be at the top of the sheet,
but this is not essential. Monograms usually are not used on monarch
sheets, but is is not incorrect to do so. Use only the front of the
sheet; if more space is needed, continue on a new page.
Monograms:
Monogrammed notes are used for thank-you notes,
short messages and formal invitations sent by women. cardSupply
offers these notes in both foldover note and single panel card styles
with a variety of monogram options. Monogrammed notes are traditionally
used by women, but men may use them as well. Single women or married
women who have retained their maiden names use their first, middle
and last initials in that order. If the center letter of the monogram
is larger, her last initial is in the center, flanked by the first
and middle initials. Married women use their first, maiden and last
initials; if the center initial is larger than the others, her married
name is in the middle with her first and maiden names on either side
of it.
Outer
Envelopes: An
outer and inner envelope are often used with formal invitations, particularly
wedding invitations. The address is handwritten or written by a calligrapher.
Envelopes used to arrive dirty and marred, damaged from hours spent
in the elements, in a pack on a horse or in a cart. The servant who
accepted the mail would remove the outer envelope and discard it and
present his or her employer with the pristine inner envelope.
Pew
Cards: Also
called Within the Ribbon Cards, these cards are often used for large,
formal weddings. Pew Cards are the same cards as other "accessory
cards" -- reception, response and ceremony cards; only the text
identifies them as pew cards. They are about 3 ½ by 5 inches,
with four to six lines of text. Pew cards state that your honored
guests should be seated in one of the first pews or within a corded-off
area. Pew Cards also act as guest passes at weddings taking place
at a location frequented by tourists-- Saint Patrick's Cathedral in
New York City, for example.
Rain
Cards: These
cards, which are simply accessory cards printed with the appropriate
message, inform guests of an alternate location in the case of rain
at an outdoor wedding. These are about 3 ½ by 5 inches with
four to six lines of text.
Reception
Cards: This
card is an accessory card printed with your reception date, time and
location. These cards are usually about 3 ½ by 5 inches with
four to six lines of text. Remember: A wedding reception is only held
on the day of the wedding. If you choose to have a celebratory party
one day, six days or six months following your wedding, it is not
a reception, but an event or party to honor the married couple.
Reply
Cards: The
same as a response card.
Response
Cards:
Response cards offer a convenient way for your guests to tell you
if they can make it to your event. Response cards are an accessory
card with a place for your guest's name and check-boxes to indicate
if he or she can come. They may also have dinner options or, usually
for weddings, a space to write a brief note. They are about 3 ½
by 5 inches with four to six lines of text. Response cards are often
single-panel cards, but may also be a foldover note. Enclose a self-addressed,
stamped envelope to encourage your guests to respond.
Save-the-Date
Cards: Sent
in advance of an event, usually a large party or wedding, save-the-date
cards ask your guests to do just that. These cards are often used
when the event is held during a busy social season -- such as the
holidays -- or if the event is of great importance -- a wedding or
Bar or Bat Mitzvah, for example. Send save-the-date cards two or three
months before you send the invitations. Save-the-date cards are not
a subsitute for an invitation; anyone who has received a save-the-date
card must receive an invitation. Save the date cards may be an accessory
card -- 3 ½ by 5 inches -- or larger, depending on the details
you wish to include.
Travel
Cards: These
are used to inform wedding guests of any travel arrangements you have
made on their behalf or those they should make themselves. This can
include things such as available flights and contact information for
hotels, taxi services, rental car agencies, etc. These cards may be
a range of sizes; from 3 ½ by 5 inches to the size of the invitation
itself, depending on the amount of information you wish to give your
guests.
Tri-Fold
Cards: These cards are mis-named -- they
only fold twice, creating three panels.
Weekend
Wedding Program: This
informs your guests of the many activities you've planned to make
your wedding special -- from the rehearsal dinner to a golf outing
to the wedding itself and the morning-after brunch. Hotel, rental
car, taxi services and other helpful details are included on the program.
A wedding program may be mailed with the invitation.